God needs you to incarnate God’s presence in your life, your love, no matter how small or unimportant you might feel you are.
Pr. Joseph G. Crippen
The Fourth Sunday of Advent, year A
Texts: Matthew 1:18-25; Isaiah 7:10-16
Beloved in Christ, grace to you, and peace in the name of the Father, and of the + Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen
This time the angel said “don’t be afraid” to Joseph.
It’s a pretty common Biblical greeting. Mary heard it at the start of all this. The shepherds will, too, outside Bethlehem. Jesus essentially said, “don’t be afraid” to John the Baptist last week.
But Mary and John had huge, frightening jobs they were asked to do for God’s mission. The shepherds were about to see the sky torn apart with the light of an uncountable mass of angels.
Why did the angel need to calm Joseph? “Don’t be afraid to get married,” the angel said. That’s all. Go ahead and take Mary as your wife. Pretty simple calling. Lots of people get married.
That’s why you should pay more attention to Joseph.
It’s not an obvious thought.
Joseph’s barely in the Gospels. Only Matthew tells any significant part of his story, and after the Egypt exile, Joseph disappears. Well, except for that awkward moment in at the Temple when twelve-year-old Jesus reminds him he’s not really his father. And try to find a hymn about Joseph in our worship books sometime.
Last week Jesus called John the Baptist the greatest ever to be born. That’s not Joseph. And Joseph isn’t asked to carry the Savior of the world in his own body. That would be Mary.
Joseph’s job in God’s plan is to be a good husband. Provide for this mother and this child.
So why “don’t be afraid?” for him?
He wasn’t afraid of marriage. He was engaged to Mary, after all.
But in light of her pregnancy, he faced the great pain that he had to either believe or doubt her story. He faced shame and scandal among his neighbors, the loss of his hopes and dreams for a quiet life, a son to carry his family’s bloodline to the next generation. Even though Scripture says they had more children, Joseph would never have a first-born son with Mary.
So with this particular child, he’d always be a supporting role. A side player. There to keep safe, and, we hope, to love. Mary would be called “Mother of God,” Theotokos. “Father of God” was never Joseph’s title.
But Mary needed to give birth safely. This child, God-with-us, would be vulnerable for years and need to be fed and clothed and sheltered and cared for until he could do what he needed to do. Joseph’s job, as simple as it seemed, was absolutely essential for God’s plan.
But the angel thought he might be afraid of doing it. So Joseph gets a “don’t be afraid,” too.
Joseph’s role is more like yours and mine than any others in this story.
This is Joseph: someone who does a critical job for God, but one that’s barely noticed, that to the world seems unimportant, even boring, that might cause embarrassment or sadness, that changes expectations and hopes.
And yet, only Joseph could do this job. Only one person was engaged to Mary. No one in the world was in Joseph’s position to be guardian for her and for this baby. No one else in the world was in a position to provide a loving father figure, a guiding hand, for this divine yet human child.
So Joseph asks you a few questions: what if you’re like me, he says, and there’s something that only you are suited for? Something God needs for only you to do and be as Christ in the world? Something that your life, your relationships, your gifts, only qualify you to do?
And what if it doesn’t seem very important, compared to others’ calls? What if it means adjusting your dreams and expectations? Or means sacrifices that you didn’t anticipate?
Would you be willing to do that? Joseph asks.
God will ask you to do something today, or tomorrow, to bring love, healing, and life to your world.
Something that only you can do that will cost you in some way. Maybe your expectations about your life or what you deserve will have to change. It may be inconvenient, or make you fear embarrassment, or be really challenging.
Maybe it will be protecting others from evil rulers out to destroy, like Joseph. Or maybe just speaking a word of hope to someone who can’t see it anywhere. Or being the only person in position to be God’s love in some place. However God’s call manifests, this is absolutely true: you are the one person in the world who can do what you do.
Now, you might not get an angel visit – or even an angel in a dream – though some certainly have experienced that, even today, and in this community. But God will always get the message through.
And God always starts with, “don’t be afraid to do this. To be this.” God’s message to Joseph, and to you, is “I am with you always.” Emmanuel. My Spirit is in you, giving you courage and hope, to do what only you can do for me.
So all will be well. Don’t be afraid. But you are the one God needs.
In the name of the Father, and of the + Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen


